Chat with boys minefield, which have you stepped on? Early change, early off!


 

‘Why is he ignoring me again’ , ‘We talked again.what to do!’ ‘whoo-woo, he said he was going to take a bath.but it’s been three hours. Why don’t you come back’I often get similar questions from some girls. saying that I don’t know how to talk to boys. I don’t know how to talk.

In fact. chat with the boys. is a particularly wonderful, but there are many hidden minefields.sometimes a little careless will directly chat burst.So how can we avoid and boys a chat. so that your chat atmosphere no longer instantly dropped to freezing point.

The key is to avoid the minefield cleverly and not talk hard. You know.some words can be said, others can not be said that, and some can not say that.

Because maybe it is because of your words. will let you originally form a good relationship got bad.

So what are some chat minefields we should avoid?

01

Check post type chat

Some girls. before they have a formal relationship with a boy, start to pretend to be girlfriends.Often with the tone of check gang chat with the boy.so that the boy has not been with her immediately began to fear up, and then to her at a distance.

A lot of peopel will be curious.what kind of chat is the chat? Let me give you an example and you will quickly understand:

The boy went out to play with his friends at night and didn’t talk to the girl as usual. Then the following conversation appeared.

Girl: What are you doing?

Guy: Hanging out with my friends

Girl: Oh.where did you play?

Boy: A friend’s birthday.we eat dinner together and sing  songs.

Girl: Oh. with whom? Who are they? Any girls?

Boys:

You kno., originally.continuous questioning will make people feel oppressive and don’t want to talk to you. And the issue of usurpation of identity  but also can make boys fear for your future relationship.

Do you think you two are not officially together. you check gang check so strict then if really together then there is freedom to speak of?

 

 

 

02

Heckle

Break the casserole to ask in the end, everything to ask why, for learning is a spirit worth learning.But if it is in the middle of a chat with the opposite sex. it can seem particularly offensive.

For example. a boy did not return the girl’s information in time. the girl asked the boy:

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Why are you ignoring me?

What are you doing? Why did you text me so late?

For this kind of up on the boys all kinds of heckling girls, I really want to say you are not the boss of the other people.

People have their own things. who will not serve you 24 hours to chat with you and you this pair of people owe you 80 million tone.people will be willing to deal with you on the ghost.

Don’t say you’re not in a relationship. Even if you are.the other person will feel uncomfortable because of your heckling.

03

Self-talk

Some girls. in order to show that they are ‘knowledgeable’ talk at length with boys. A large section of self-hi. also secretly proud.

Please. girl. stop wallowing in your own world.

Look carefully at the response. if the other person is not very interested and engaged in your topic but occasionally polite and brief ‘deal’ with you. Then you have to stop in time ah!

Although if you want boys to like you.you must show your charm to attract boys but the right medicine is effective ah! Just like a cat likes to eat fish but you give it a bone then it will not be interested.

04

Boring opening

A lot of girls as long as a boy to chat.open mouth is ‘what?’ The regular greeting every day except ‘good morning’ is ‘good night’.

 Ah. you so boring chat mode. day after day with boys chat. even if the boys do not bother you. you do not feel tired of it?

Chat to know how to find a topic.you need to know an interesting opening line. How can you successfully attract a guy to talk to you with this boring opening?On the contrary. it will only make boys think you are a boring person and put you in the safety period!

(If you don’t already know how to funny the opening.can’t find a better opening than’what are you doing? ‘Better used opening line. which can be found in Official Account message template Background send the keyword ‘opening’can learn more useful opening form oh! )

 

05

They keep typing.you keep voicing.

As we’ve said before sending voice messages and live photos from time to time can bring you closer.make you feel intimate and full of surprises.But you know. send voice but also to see the occasion ah!

Sometimes you keep sending voice messages the other side is back to your text and usually for a long time. Then obviously. this time the other party is in the occasion may not be convenient to listen to voice.

But you don’t think about the other person’s situation, only focus on your own feelings. this will make people think you are a person who doesn’t know how to read or a more self-care about their own feelings.

Sometimes this kind of behavior will only make people do not want to chat with you.don’t want to return your messages.

06

Don’t know how to close

Some little fairies. not will not open.nor will not find a topic, is in the end of the topic of this issue.do not know how to stop.

Originally in front of the boy chat atmosphere is good but then this topic chat about almost she temporarily can not think of a better topic than before on the non-stop wheel to say back and forth, topsy-turvy repetition.

So boys will obviously appear tired mood. originally good chat will once into the cold.Originally in front of a good chat to the end is just to be integrate into the counter effect.

Know how to close the good.timely end the topic.the chat about the end of the topic is to stop, see good on the correct approach.

Most of us have the misconception that ending the conversation is impolite to each other. In fact sometimes has been a chat to the end of the accumulation of negative emotions. it is better to chat in the best state of the point to stop, let the other side of it.

Because after the climax of the topic.it’s hard to find another topic that goes beyond it very quickly. So it is better to keep the mood of both sides at the highest point, give each other a little bit of meaning to read.this will make him look forward to your next chat.

In the communication between men and women. chat is a big knowledge.sometimes boys don’t like you. not because you are not good enough. but because you can’t chat.

When you skillfully avoid the chat minefield. gradually let the other party feel pleasure in chatting with you. the other person will be more willing to enjoy your chat.

In this way to let each other gradually fall in love with you chat, chat with you as a habit and daily, and then you develop into an essential part of life, habit existence.

Have we learned a lot of skills? Start a chat now!

 

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