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Sometimes life needs to slow down to become smoother

Life is short and passes quickly, accidentally life has passed more than half, some people who want to play their value, have to race against time, in a limited time to make infinite possibilities.

But it is not good to do things in haste, Want to do a thing quickly will be very rushed, busy the possibility of mistakes greatly increased, the more want to make a thing, the faster to do one thing, this thing is not a good finish.

Rather than spend a lot of time doing some useless work or even doing negative work, it is better to make good use of the time, concentrate on, careful to do a thing, a thing done, but also to play the value of life.

So, when you feel that your time is not enough, but also everything is not satisfactory, you can properly put some unnecessary things behind you at first, take ease, so that there is better energy to play their value.

I believe everyone has this feeling that work and life in a trouble, all kinds of problems will follow, pile up, this time will be very anxious, very worried, but do not know what to do.

In fact, this time we should slow down, smooth things one by one and  think about the way to cope.

In fact, life, slow down, smooth.

Slow to speak and give yourself time to think.

Speak slowly, means that the speed of speech can slow down some, then the time can be put longer, so that you can have more time to think, what you  should say or  not, the words have no problems in the organization of statements.

After all, when a person says something that shouldn’t be said, there will be some conflict with these obedient people and more time will be wasted to resolve the consequences of the words.

Even because the target is their own relatives or friends similar important people, will greatly affect the relationship each other.

Sometimes the words spoken are more serious than the hurt of hitting, Although that may really be their own inner thoughts, but just for an idea, it is heartily said it, offended should not offend the people, to make enemies for themselves, this is very unwise.

So, if you find that your brain is always saying something that should not be said without thinking, control you’re speaking habits, slow down a little, take a little longer, and think about it more.

Move slowly and give yourself time to consider the consequences.

Act slowly, is to do a thing, to have a certain understanding of the thing to act, not what preparation has not done, eager to want a result.

In many cases, the rush is to prove to others their attitude, To prove their determination, but do not have a good plan for this matter, is easy to make mistakes, the final result often did not change their impression in others, but produced a bigger drop.

Take your time, don’t be so positive, be able to do your own things well, be more real than any attitude, and let others find your value.

Acting slowly will not only make things less error-prone, but also make your own efficiency.

Do things slowly and give yourself time to think about ways.

To do things slowly means to do something at a slower pace. There is always a process to do a thing, in this process, every moment will appear new problems, speed put faster, there is less time to think about the right way to do things, more likely to lead to mistakes.

Everything has a process that should be experienced, want to skip some of the process, quickly to complete it, will only make their previous work has become useless.

A person who works methodically to get everything done will often end up being the one who can make the best use of his time, because in the same time, he gets more done than others.

Do things slowly, do things carefully, increase the rate of one thing, will make time more valuable.

A person always feel that he has not enough time, feel that they have a lot of things to do, but few can do it well, and then produce everything is not going his way.

This is normal, because everyone wants to make the most of his or her life in a short time, but there are always mistakes.

You can calm down and think before you do something, These things, which must be done, which is not necessary to do, which are important, which not important, what is urgent, what are not urgent, according to their own choices first.

Doing things indiscriminately, than planned, methodical, prudent, It is much less efficient to do things slowly. Instead of rushing into things that don’t get good results, it is better to do fewer things and do them well.

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Make him blush and shy by flirting with his boyfriend like this!

As far as I know, a lot of girls around me like to tease their boyfriends. Every time when they “cheat success,” tantalizing boys can not stop, will let them give birth to a special sense of achievement.

And they feel that doing so to a great extent to promote the further development of their feelings between the boyfriend feel full of temptation, more attractive!

Is that no matter what kind of molestation, can achieve this effect? Of course not!

Flirting also requires a certain amount of skill, neither trace, but also make people think about flirting in order to make boys want to stop.

How do you do that? Today I’m going to share with  a hardcore “teasing” technique:


Occasionally small, but very sweet little things


Suddenly paused and said, “Oh, I forgot something!”Before you went out

Then the boy will ask you: “What is it?” At this point, you just pretend to forget and tell him you can’t remember.

Then when he starts getting a little anxious, give him a kiss and tell him that’s it.

He will be angry with you and Speechless, calling you a little rascal.


When you are a child, you will certainly be taken care of by your mother, helping to dress and then carefully arranging your clothes when you go out. This kind of childhood memories will remain in the subconscious until adulthood.

So when you carefully for a boy to tidy his collar, or help him tidy his scarf, tie, he will feel that moment of you very gentle.

So when your boyfriend goes out,You can suddenly say, “Wait a minute.” Then he reached out to straighten his tie and straighten his collar.

At that moment, without any words, just one simple act was enough to stop his heart.


When he thanked you and said how nice you were, you said : “Dear, remember to give five stars!” Then point to your cheek. At this point, he will surely kiss up.

Then wait for him to finish kissing, you say: “kiss, this is three stars praise, not five stars oh.”

“How does that qualify as five stars?” he must have asked.

You open your hands and say, “That’s five stars.” Then he’s gonna give you a big hug.


A little dirty, but a cute prank.


Gently approached him, gently looked at him, on tiptoe, slowly reached out to hold his neck, with a bit shy, to go up.

Then slip the hand that has just taken the chilled watermelon through his collar and into his back, especially in the winter.

The excitement of fire and ice will certainly make him unforgettable.


Pretend to be serious, after running, such cheating makes bad, will make him like you more!

For example, the two of you are watching TV on the couch, You put your head on his shoulder, and then gently with your finger in his thigh to draw a circle, tease his heart itching when, wink and ask him: “Do you want to do something together?”

Wait for him excited and surprised to ask you: “Now?” Or cheerfully say: “Well, well, then come on,” you then lightly answer: “well, now let’s do the housework!”

Remember to say that after you must pretend to be serious, as if nothing has happened silently walk away. Ensure that after three seconds, your boyfriend will be angry and come after you for “revenge.”

Ladies and gentlemen, this technique can be used in many scenes, such as when you are reading in the library, playing games together and so on. When he is taken the bait, you can ask him to do his homework and cook together.

Such bad pranks will make your otherwise plain and boring daily life more interesting!


What if you’re not together and you want to hit on him?

Don’t worry, Chat flirt can still achieve the same effect., like this:

Send him a voice, with a soft ambiguous, very provocative tone asked him: “Husband, do you want to see my shower photos ah?”

When he is shy and excited to express “want,” send a picture of “date” to him.

Or Chat ask him: “Husband ~ do you want to see a small Sexy photos ah?”

Then whether his answer is yes or no, please throw him a Sexy  picture of you.

In addition, you can also give full play to your creativity, in a variety of ways to “flirt” with him, anyway, away from him, itching his heart can not be afraid, he can not do anything to you.

Love, talk about two people’s emotions,If you can like this “molest” him, arouse the other party’s emotions, then also worry about the love between you boring, boring no topic?

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Finding love in the later stages of life

People who work a white-collar job keep love and marriage reserved for the latter part of their lives. The reason for this varies from person to person and could be any of the following:

1. They don’t have enough time for relationships during their crushing job hours (9 am to 5 pm)

2. They have financial constraints and want to earn a substantial amount of money first.

3. They are struggling with their career.

4. They are still studying on the side.

5. They have family responsibilities, such as looking after their younger siblings.

6. They are not emotionally ready for a relationship.

Such people are looked upon as a lost cause. However, the reality is the opposite of that. People who look for love in the later stages of their life reap many benefits! Here, we talk about a few of them.

1. Financial stability

After working for most of their lives, such people don’t have to worry about money. They can go on any type of date they like without having to think about how they’re going to pay for it. Like it or not, money DOES matter. You cannot focus on your partner when your subconscious is restless thinking about how you’re going to pay the next bill.

2. Experience

Young people have many doubts about their future and their potential life partners. Even when they’re in a relationship, they constantly ask themselves, “Is this what I want?”

However, when you’re old, you have a lot of experience in life. Even if you have never been in a relationship before, you have a clear idea of what you look for in your lover.

3. Emotional maturity

Humans are complex beings and hold a wide array of emotions. When they grow old, they start to understand why people react the way they do. Older people are better equipped to work things out because they can navigate their way in and out of emotions.

4. Authenticity

When the rush of hormones dials down during old age, you see things clearly. You have a better idea of who you are, and what you want in a love connection; as opposed to teenagers and young adults who have a lot to figure out about themselves.

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Dating websites that have a track record of finding the perfect match

Dating apps and websites like Bumble and Tinder are good for casual dating but not so much for establishing a lifelong connection with someone. Here, we review online dating websites that have helped many people find love successfully.

1. Eharmony

If you are looking for a serious relationship, eharmony is the way to go. It matches people based on their core values and compatibility scores with others. In the past 20+ years, eharmony has found love for over two million people. Some of their success stories are featured on their website. They have connected people living in different countries, people looking for a second chance at love, people who nearly gave up, and more! Some of them even have their own babies now!

2. EliteSingles

Most people (85%) on EliteSingles are educated and look for other intellectual and professional people. The dating pool of this dating website ranges from divorced people to single millionaires. It is the ideal choice for single people in their forties.

Success stories of EliteSingles feature three couples:

Michelle and Lee. They formed a lifelong connection on EliteSingles and got married the next year!

Alix and Rory. Two people living in different countries (England and Dublin) met in real life and are now in a serious relationship. They plan to live with each other in the future.

Adam and Allison. They found each other within two days of joining the website and are now a happy couple.

3. Zoosk

Zoosk hosts over 40,000,000 singles worldwide and is available in 25 languages! It uses Behavioural Matchmaking technology to find the perfect set of matches for you.

Zoosk has a whole blog featuring the success stories of Zoosk couples! My favourite Zoosk couple is Kristy and Denise from Wisconsin. Kristy writes, “Denise smiled at me first, but I was already eyeing her! I tried to play it cool and waited a couple seconds, and smiled back. We started chatting on the site and almost immediately on the phone. We met at a restaurant halfway between our homes, and that was it!! We are a perfect match because we both enjoy life, have the same values and love our time having fun together!”

4. Christian Cafe

If you are a Christian looking for a long-term commitment, sign up on ChristianCafe! This dating website is owned by Christian people. So they understand exactly what other people want in their Christian partners. It is truly Christians connecting Christians from all over the world. You could be living in the same city or on the opposite sides of the world, Christian Cafe has a place for every Christian love connection.

Since 1999, Christian Cafe has commenced over 25000 marriages! Their website features over 3000 testimonials. My favourite one is from Lindsey and Greg. It reads, “I have always asked God that when I met the man I would marry, I would know it immediately, and there would be no games, no confusion, no nonsense. I prayed that and had complete faith that in God’s timing this would happen. I give all the praise and glory to God, and thanks to for a great site with a comfortable atmosphere to it.”

5. JDate

Jewish people, who want to find a partner sharing the same faith as them, should check out JDate! It has been around since 1997 and has a free membership. The website features over 820 success stories!

JDate has the largest Jewish dating pool online. The website matches Jewish people based on:

● Physical features (you can upload up to six photos)

● Hobbies

Religious practices

● Relationship preferences

It also features a Look Book to help you keep track of everyone who has liked your profile.


ChristianMingle is the largest God-centered dating community with local singles who share the same faith.
Find love on ChristianMingle!

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Online Dating For Young People — Risks, Challenges, And How To Overcome Them

Online dating is easy and convenient. Who wouldn’t want to try it out? Young people think along the same lines as they sign up on dating websites. However, they’re rarely aware of the risks and challenges that come with it. Let’s look at some of them here.

Risk 1: Online grooming

Online grooming refers to older people who pretend to befriend children in order to coerce them into sexual activities later. They mostly target impressionable teenagers and make them feel like they are in a genuine relationship with them. After developing trust, such predators push young people into sexual activities by harassing and blackmailing them into sending their nudes.

Risk 2: Harassment

The thing about online spaces is that everyone can approach you in one way or another. Some send you unsolicited messages and explicit pictures. It can happen across all social media platforms, including dating websites.

Risk 3: Privacy issues

Most young people are naive and easily give out private information to strangers on the internet. It puts them in a vulnerable position.

Risk 4: Dependence on external validation

Young people tend to crave the approval of older and “mature” people on dating websites. And before you know it, they start saying and doing inappropriate things that are not in their best interest.

Risk 5: Everything is not what it seems

People can pretend to be anyone on dating websites, and it’s hard to filter real profiles from fake ones. Some lie about their age and gender; others lie about their professional and personal life. You may have no idea who you’re dating until you actually meet them. Sometimes, not even then.

How To Overcome The Risks That Come With Online Dating

There is nothing to be embarrassed about if you have experienced one or more of these dangers. Even the best of us get scammed on dating websites, which is why I’m here to help you be cautious while dating someone online.

1. Understand that most people online actively seek out naive people. They use the kindness of your heart against you. Do not be afraid of being assertive and asking them to prove their identity. Look through their social media profiles. If they are mostly empty with only a few posts and no family members added, it is a red flag.

2. Counsel yourself. So you do not draw validation from others. You are valuable, and you know what you are doing with your life. You do not have to prove yourself to anyone online. If you want some advice, take it from your parents. If that is not an option, do your research on Google; avoid taking the word of strangers.

3. Trust your instincts, report people and dating profiles that appear suspicious to you.

4. If you feel stuck, unable to see through the motives of a person online, talk about it with your friend. They will help you get some perspective.

5. Keep your personal information, such as your home and school address, private.

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How to deal with rejection on dating sites

Dating apps and websites increase your exposure to the entire dating pool. Unfortunately, with more people comes more rejections. Your self-esteem can take a blow every time someone tells you that they don’t want to be with you and are looking for someone else.

Between all the chaos and the hurt, you need to pace yourself and remain calm. Don’t let it get to you. Here are some friendly reminders to help you deal with rejection on dating sites:

It’s not you, it’s them (truly)

Whenever we hear someone say, It’s not you, it’s me, we think of it as a lousy excuse designed to push us away, which is true sometimes. However, when it comes to online dating, these words hold true to themselves.


When someone rejects you, it does not mean that you are a horrible person. It simply means that they are looking for someone else, someone who matches their lifestyle. And you just don’t happen to be that someone. So don’t take it personally.

You can’t be perfect for everyone

Avoid having unrealistic expectations, such as everyone liking you just because you’re a good person. You are not for everyone, just as not everyone is for you.

People have different preferences, they could be looking for a different type of person, and there is nothing you can do to change them. Respect their choices and move on to someone who not only accepts you but also cherishes your existence.


Your worth is not defined by others’ approval of you

Don’t place your self-worth in other’s approval of you. If someone ghosts you, it could mean many things. They could be busy with work, or they found someone else. But I can assure you that it has nothing to do with you as a person. You deserve love even if no one approves of you, whether it’s on dating sites or in real life.

There is plenty of fish in the sea

As cliche as it may sound, there really is plenty of fish in the sea. Don’t let that one rejection or even multiple rejections hold you back from approaching another person. Who knows, maybe the next one will turn out to be the love of your life. However, you don’t need to be on the lookout for love all the time. Take a break, and start fresh!


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