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These five ways a man chats with you shows that he doesn’t love you at all!

Some girls always struggle over and over again on one issue, tossing and turning, that is – “He really love me or not?”

Is the answer to this question really so difficult? In fact, not necessarily, sometimes, it is just because we are in it that the authorities are obsessed.

Try to get out of the way and observe and analyze with a calm mind, and the answer will be obvious.

Today I will teach you a very useful chat self-examination technique to test how much a man loves you.

As long as you analyze your chat records, you can clearly know whether he loves you or not?


round-robin chat

If you’re chatting with a guy, always be positive and respond quickly to his messages. But it always takes a long time for him to reply to you, sometimes even after several days.

Then this is a typical “negative” chat – you reply to his message in seconds, and he replies to your message after in means that he doesn’t interest on you.

Of course, everyone is busy, especially if a guy is very good, then he may devote a lot of time to study and career, so it is inevitable that sometimes when you send him a message, he will reply Slow down.

But if he always delays for a long time every time he responds to your message, and sometimes even reply to you after a day or two, then undoubtedly, his investment in you is very limited, then the degree of his love for you is also limited. 

Be careful, it doesn’t mean that a guy doesn’t love you if he responds slowly to your message. Don’t be like some girls. If a guy doesn’t reply to himself after ten minutes or an hour or two, he will be in all kinds of entanglements. All kinds of doubts that boys do not love themselves.

What I’m talking about is that boys don’t reply to you for a long time, sometimes even a day or two, and this frequency of replying has become the norm. This is a sign that boys don’t love you.


A thousand years to wait for a chat

In addition to the length of time a guy responds to your messages, the frequency with which he contacts you is also an important indicator of whether he loves you.

If you chat with a guy, you start a topic, and every time you talk to him, he responds to you.

And the number of times he takes the initiative to chat with you is very small, it is simply “wait for a thousand years”, then he must not love you enough.

So, take out your phone, look through your chat history with him, check the date, and see if the person who opens the conversation is always you?

Under normal circumstances, it should be almost half and half of two people. Even if a boy likes you more and you are in a high position in the relationship, it should be the boy who takes the initiative more often.

So, to see if a boy doesn’t love you, just see if he is always chatting with you in an interactive way of “waiting for a thousand years”.


Cherish words like gold

There are also some boys who always cherish words when chatting with girls, as if saying one more word will kill them.

This type of boy generally has three behaviors when chatting with girls:

short opening remarks

Every time I take the initiative to find you, the words are always super short, either “Are you there?” .

Boys like this are generally likely to cast a wide net. Maybe when he sent you this message, he also sent it to many other girls, just to see who was interested in him and who would put more value in him.

If he meets a girl who is more interested in him and returns to him, then he will naturally be more willing to chat with that girl, and will naturally ignore you.

You send a “small composition” but he replies with “keywords”

There are other guys, although he doesn’t “cast a wide net” and treat you like a fish. But in the process of chatting, the level of slackness is also unbearable.

You chatted with him excitedly and sent him a long message, which was almost as long as a “small composition”. But when he replied to you, it was only two or three words, just like keywords.

Some people say that the number of words a person replies to you is proportional to his love for you. In fact, sometimes this sentence is not unreasonable.

Emoji pack perfunctory reply

There is another kind of reply, even if he doesn’t bother to type hyphens, no matter what you say to him, he will reply you with an emoji.

You told him something happened today that made you feel so sad, and he replied you with a emoji.

You tell him that the weather is getting colder, remember to add clothes, and he will reply with emoji again.

For him, expressions are everything, because he finds it troublesome to type a word for you. You ask how much he loves you? Then you count the number of words he replies to you.


Like the  cold king

There is also a kind of boy who replies to you in a timely manner and doesn’t use emojis to perfunctory you, but he always embarrassed the scene when you chat with him, and is often cold.

Obviously every time you open a particularly good chat topic, but he always refuses to answer, and often use few words to end the chats within second.

You look at his circle of friends and know that he has gone abroad recently, and then you tell him, how is the journey? I’ve been to XX place too. It’s very fun and the food is very delicious. Have you been there?

Then he replies to you: Mmmm, okay. Didn’t go.

You know he also likes some star very much, and also went to concerts. So you said to him: Wow, you went to the concert too? I went too that day!

He will say to you: Oh, nice.

These replies can feel a cool wind blowing across the screen, making people feel a cool feeling.

Yes, don’t doubt, the reason why he can’t talk so much is just because he doesn’t like you.

There is a saying that is good, it depends on whether a person loves you, not what he said, but what he did for you.

But if a person is unwilling to invest even in the value of “speaking”, and he is slack and perfunctory even in speaking, then what do you expect him to do for you?

Babies, when you meet such a boy, please stop worrying and entanglement.

Since it is obvious that he is so uninterested in you, why should we lose our dignity to beg and wag our tails.

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These few secrets, let men take the initiative to change bad habits for you

A lot of times, I always hear some girls complain that their boyfriends have some shortcomings that really make them unbearable.Some say that their boyfriend has never been sloppy, and is simply a technical nerd. Some people say that their boyfriend doesn’t understand amorous feelings at all, and is completely a straight male.Others say that their boyfriend neither understands romance, but also lives a decadent life, and is properly a greasy man.They have tried many methods, but the boys are still unmoved, and there is no substantial change in action. What do they have to do so that boys can be obedient and make changes for them?

In fact, it is not that difficult to want a boy to be willing to make changes for you. Just like meeting a cat with a stubborn personality, as long as you find its cool point correctly, it will obediently let you stroke it.If you want a boy to change for you willingly, you must first understand the following points:

01 encourage

When we train the dog, As the dog makes a corresponding action according to your instructions, we usually reward it, so that the dog will form a conditioned reflex in the long run and be more willing to make the action.

Humans are actually the same as animals. Once he does something, he will be rewarded, so he will definitely be happy to repeat this action, which is learned behavior through reinforcement.

So when a boy does the behavior you want him to do, even if it’s just an occasional one or two, you should know how to encourage and praise him in time.

For example, he has always been a steely straight male who doesn’t understand the style, and even takes the initiative to call you and rarely speaks. But  one night he suddenly took the initiative to call you.

Then at this time, you must not be very surprised and complain that he has not taken the initiative to call you before.

Instead, you should say to him: I feel so happy every time I hear your voice, and I love the feeling of hearing you say goodnight to me in person before going to bed.

In this way, boys will be more willing to speak or call you more often.

02 bottom line

If you want a guy to make a change, you have to let him know where your bottom line is.

If no matter what he looks like or what he does, you look like you can bear it completely, then he will have no psychological pressure at all and no motivation to change at all.

But, on the contrary, if you can let him know where your bottom line is, then he knows he needs to perform better or risk losing you.

03 express needs

Sometimes, it’s not that the guy is unwilling to make changes for you, it’s that you never express your needs to him.

It’s like a paragraph on TikTok :

Girl: You don’t understand me at all

Boy: How can I understand you if you don’t tell me

Girl: The real understanding does not need to be said

Boy: I don’t understand what you said

Girl: What’s the point of saying it, I don’t say it, you should understand

Boy: I’m not you, how can I know your feelings completely

Girl: I don’t care

Although this is just a joke, it is indeed a state that often occurs when men and women get along.

Girls are shy about expressing their thoughts and expect boys to understand in seconds. But most straight men say that it is really difficult for them to do this. They can’t do it at all.

So sometimes, such a state can cause a lot of misunderstandings. It’s not that the guy doesn’t want to make changes for you, it’s that he doesn’t know what changes he needs to make.

So it’s important to communicate with a guy and let him know what changes you want him to make.

04 good attitude

As we mentioned earlier, if you want boys to make changes for you, communication is actually very important. So how to communicate, will achieve a good effect? The answer is: good attitude.

When you express your needs and hope that boys make changes, you must not criticize and blame like parents educate their children. This will not only fail to achieve the purpose, but sometimes even have the opposite effect.

In addition, when communicating, you should avoid these two sensitive words as much as possible: always and never.

For example, when some girls quarrel with boys, they will say: You are always like this, every time you talk is not counted… You will never change, you have never done anything for me… ··

You know, the emotions expressed by these two words are very extreme. This is a violent way of communication that will only fill your relationship with accusations, complaints and blows.

05 lead by example

Many times, we want others to make changes. First of all, you must take the initiative to make changes, so that you can lead and infect the people around you.

For example, you complain about boys, a decadent life, a greasy body, and an unhealthy lifestyle. Instead of urging him to get rid of these bad habits in his ear every day, it is better to be yourself first.

Go out and participate in meaningful social activities, go to the gym regularly every day, and refuse those unhealthy junk food.

In this way, in the long run, when he sees your change, he will definitely be inspired by you and take the initiative to try to make changes.

In short, if you want a boy to communicate with you more, you should first communicate with him proactively. If you want a boy to care more about you, then you should try to care more about him first, and use your actions to drive it. He, of course, would be more willing to make changes.

06 No one is perfect

Although, above we talked about a lot of techniques to make guys willing to make changes for you. But we must be clear that no one is perfect, and no one is perfect.

Maybe this boy has one or another shortcomings, but unless it is some serious or principled issues, we can all be as tolerant as possible.

True love is not only loving the other person’s strengths, but even small shortcomings can become the reason for you to love him.

As long as you’re sure he’s a reliable man and the right person you really want to be with, try to accept some of his small shortcomings as well.

Two people in love are like turning two gears of friction, and finding the best state of getting along between you will make love more beautiful.

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When women reach middle age, there are still men who take the initiative to “flirting” with you, mostly for these purposes

For other purposes that you don’t want to experience

Love means different things for different people for each age group.When we are young, we yearn for vigor and vitality. By middle age, we want stability. Women all want to be loved and to be pursued, but in middle age, things are different. Maybe you already have a family.  You think that he really loves you, but a lot of the time he doesn’t. He might just be trying to take advantage of you, or he more likely that he is just looking for novelty, and then he will go his own way. When you reach middle age, you can no longer treat your suitors as willfully as you did when you were young. You need to discern what he means to you and how you should handle this relationship so that you don’t get hurt. In fact, when women reach middle age, they still pursue the opposite sex, mostly for these purposes.

To experience the freshness

Love is not a game of deceit, but some men like to seek their own interests under the guise of love. Such men take the initiative to approach middle-aged women, and even show great hospitality to them, mostly for the word “interest”, and women have to guard against them. Love is only a part of life. We can fully enjoy the happiness brought by love, but at the same time we need to be alert to the traps in it, so as not to let ourselves fall into it. Love someone, please love them deeply, and don’t waste other people’s feelings and let yourself become a liar. I have seen many such cases in my life. A man approaching a middle-aged woman appears to be because of love, but in fact it is because the other party’s economic conditions are good, such as a few properties, huge savings, and so on. When the man saw this, he pretended to approach her, and when the time was right, he slowly revealed his ambition, either letting the property transfer or trying to move her money. Such a person has a very clear purpose, and such feelings are more hypocritical than we imagine. Only by knowing how to distinguish can we distinguish what is true love and what is playing and exploiting.

Due to the pressure of parents, Want to find a suitable marriage partner as soon as possible

It seems that once entering the society, people will face three kinds of pressures: the pressure of finding a job, getting married, and having children. Pressure always exists around people all the time. If you have just graduated, your family will ask you to find a job, and you will face pressure to find a job; if your job is stable and your age is marriageable , then your family will urge you to go on a blind date, get married, and the pressure of marriage begins to approach you again; if you are already married, your family may urge you to have a child while you are young again, and you will face such pressure to have a child again. These pressures will always subtly make people feel coercive and unpleasant, and these pressures can crush people in all aspects. So when a middle-aged unmarried man is still flirting with you, and often takes the initiative to care about you, you have to evaluate and think seriously, whether he really loves you , or is it just old age, it’s time to get married, find someone who is suitable for marriage. Both of these are very important, because no one can withstand the pressure of family marriage all the time, and then convince himself that he can’t do it in his life. No, everyone will compromise with reality. Everyone is an ordinary person, an ordinary person who cannot shoulder the responsibilities of a hero. It is difficult to take care of yourself under the pressure of this society. If you still need to take care of yourself. One’s own love, taking care of the perfect pursuit of love in one’s heart, is too tiring for an adult. It is easy to find a suitable person for marriage, but true love and sincere affection are too hard to find. If a man is still unmarried in middle age and takes the initiative to flirt with you, then he may not really love you, but in addition to loving you, there are many things that may urge him to do it.

Emotional suggest: When a woman reaches the stage of forty or fifty years old, don’t be blinded by a man’s temporary love, otherwise the consequences will be disastrous. If you say that you already have a stable marriage, you naturally have to reject the pursuit of other opposite sex, because once you are tempted, you will definitely pay the price; if you are single, you should also get to know each other comprehensively. If something is wrong, you have to turn away immediately. In the face of love, don’t be blindly impulsive. Sometimes you look at it like love, but it is actually a hurt. Don’t be fooled and fooled. In any case, stay away from divorce, keep yourself awake, and don’t be deceived by men’s rhetoric. Only in this way can you reap a lifetime of happiness.

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5 Things To Notice While Choosing Him As Your Partner

As we all know, finding someone who is mature, pure, humble, and down to earth in this cruel and robotic world seems tough and almost not possible. But some people are fortunate enough to meet the love of their life and enjoy their lives together in peace.

So while choosing someone to share your breakfast dates and movie nights, there are few things you should consider.

1. Observe his behaviour with other women

If he does not respect other women and does not really care about his ways of behaving with them, he might not ever be respectable towards you as well. So thinking twice before making him an essential part of your life is not invalid.

2. Notice his honesty with you

Many people experience deception and untruthfulness in their relationships. It not only affects their partnership but gives the person terrible emotional trauma. This is why you should look for someone who means whatever they say and someone open about how they feel.

3. See how he manages his anger

Anger management is important as it not only assists in resolving problems early but is also considered beneficial for your physical health. Problems like anxiety and stress leave a negative impact on the relationship if he fails to keep calm in ugly arguments.

4. His support for your ambitions and goals

A relationship is not defined by the intimate stuff alone. Other things like choosing a partner who keeps on motivating you to achieve your goals and is willing to support you with whatever decision you make for your future are also essential.

5. His behaviour with domestic helpers

The way he treats helpers and waitresses says a lot about his empathetic character, which must be acknowledged and recognized. Compassion is one of the most important moral qualities, and you should try to find someone who can easily feel for other people.

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How To Heal Yourself After A Breakup

Often emotional pain is not given the same amount of attention and care as physical pain, making it much harder to heal. Breakups, especially after a long run, are one of the most intense emotional pains humans experience. Yet, there are little to no remedies for recovering from it. Here I will mention a few of the ways you can heal from a breakup.

Acknowledge the pain. When we break up, we face the harsh reality of being rejected. This rejection is a huge blow to our egos and often causes us to ignore the pain and act indifferent to it. But ignoring this pain will cause our emotions to gather up only to erupt like a volcano at any moment. Thus, the first step towards healing from a breakup is to accept that it has affected you in many ways.

Let it all out. Once you have accepted that you were hurt and rejected, the next step is to mourn the loss- quite literally. Cry your heart out, scream into the pillow (flush their pictures into the toilet, etc.), and do not, even for a moment, think that your friend is judging you for your runny nose.

Surround yourself with love. The next step is to surround yourself with love. Be with family, friends, and even pets who provide you with unconditional support and love, whose company empowers you and makes you feel strong. Taking a helping hand from loved ones during a breakup can feel like a fresh breath of air after a deep dive. In short, relying on love can make you get up on your feet again.

Find love within yourself. In relationships, we sometimes shower our partners with all of the love that we have. And forget to keep some for ourselves. While breaking up, it seems like our ex has taken all our love with them, and there is nothing left behind. The final and the hardest step in healing from a breakup is to start learning self-love again. You can do this by reviving your healthy habits, pampering yourself, eating healthy, exercising, and doing what you love.

Finally, be sure to be patient with yourself. You will not heal overnight, give yourself time and see yourself emerge as a stronger person from this healing process.

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Dating websites that have a track record of finding the perfect match

1. Eharmony

If you are looking for a serious relationshipeharmony is the way to go. It matches people based on their core values and compatibility scores with others. In the past 20+ years, eharmony has found love for over two million people. Some of their success stories are featured on their website. They have connected people living in different countries, people looking for a second chance at love, people who nearly gave up, and more! Some of them even have their own babies now!

2. EliteSingles

Most people (85%) on EliteSingles are educated and look for other intellectual and professional people. The dating pool of this dating website ranges from divorced people to single millionaires. It is the ideal choice for single people in their forties.

Success stories of EliteSingles feature three couples:

● Michelle and Lee. They formed a lifelong connection on EliteSingles and got married the next year!

● Alix and Rory. Two people living in different countries (England and Dublin) met in real life and are now in a serious relationship. They plan to live with each other in the future.

● Adam and Allison. They found each other within two days of joining the website and are now a happy couple.

3. Zoosk

Zoosk hosts over 40,000,000 singles worldwide and is available in 25 languages! It uses Behavioural Matchmaking technology to find the perfect set of matches for you.

Zoosk has a whole blog featuring the success stories of Zoosk couples! My favourite Zoosk couple is Kristy and Denise from Wisconsin. Kristy writes, “Denise smiled at me first, but I was already eyeing her! I tried to play it cool and waited a couple seconds, and smiled back. We started chatting on the site and almost immediately on the phone. We met at a restaurant halfway between our homes, and that was it!! We are a perfect match because we both enjoy life, have the same values and love our time having fun together!”

4. Christian Cafe

If you are a Christian looking for a long-term commitment, sign up on ChristianCafe! This dating website is owned by Christian people. So they understand exactly what other people want in their Christian partners. It is truly Christians connecting Christians from all over the world. You could be living in the same city or on the opposite sides of the world, Christian Cafe has a place for every Christian love connection.

Since 1999, Christian Cafe has commenced over 25000 marriages! Their website features over 3000 testimonials. My favourite one is from Lindsey and Greg. It reads, “I have always asked God that when I met the man I would marry, I would know it immediately, and there would be no games, no confusion, no nonsense. I prayed that and had complete faith that in God’s timing this would happen. I give all the praise and glory to God, and thanks to for a great site with a comfortable atmosphere to it.”

5. JDate

Jewish people, who want to find a partner sharing the same faith as them, should check out JDate! It has been around since 1997 and has a free membership. The website features over 820 success stories!

JDate has the largest Jewish dating pool online. The website matches Jewish people based on:

● Physical features (you can upload up to six photos)

● Hobbies

● Religious practices

● Relationship preferences

It also features a Look Book to help you keep track of everyone who has liked your profile.


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Sometimes life needs to slow down to become smoother

Life is short and passes quickly, accidentally life has passed more than half, some people who want to play their value, have to race against time, in a limited time to make infinite possibilities.

But it is not good to do things in haste, Want to do a thing quickly will be very rushed, busy the possibility of mistakes greatly increased, the more want to make a thing, the faster to do one thing, this thing is not a good finish.

Rather than spend a lot of time doing some useless work or even doing negative work, it is better to make good use of the time, concentrate on, careful to do a thing, a thing done, but also to play the value of life.

So, when you feel that your time is not enough, but also everything is not satisfactory, you can properly put some unnecessary things behind you at first, take ease, so that there is better energy to play their value.

I believe everyone has this feeling that work and life in a trouble, all kinds of problems will follow, pile up, this time will be very anxious, very worried, but do not know what to do.

In fact, this time we should slow down, smooth things one by one and  think about the way to cope.

In fact, life, slow down, smooth.

Slow to speak and give yourself time to think.

Speak slowly, means that the speed of speech can slow down some, then the time can be put longer, so that you can have more time to think, what you  should say or  not, the words have no problems in the organization of statements.

After all, when a person says something that shouldn’t be said, there will be some conflict with these obedient people and more time will be wasted to resolve the consequences of the words.

Even because the target is their own relatives or friends similar important people, will greatly affect the relationship each other.

Sometimes the words spoken are more serious than the hurt of hitting, Although that may really be their own inner thoughts, but just for an idea, it is heartily said it, offended should not offend the people, to make enemies for themselves, this is very unwise.

So, if you find that your brain is always saying something that should not be said without thinking, control you’re speaking habits, slow down a little, take a little longer, and think about it more.

Move slowly and give yourself time to consider the consequences.

Act slowly, is to do a thing, to have a certain understanding of the thing to act, not what preparation has not done, eager to want a result.

In many cases, the rush is to prove to others their attitude, To prove their determination, but do not have a good plan for this matter, is easy to make mistakes, the final result often did not change their impression in others, but produced a bigger drop.

Take your time, don’t be so positive, be able to do your own things well, be more real than any attitude, and let others find your value.

Acting slowly will not only make things less error-prone, but also make your own efficiency.

Do things slowly and give yourself time to think about ways.

To do things slowly means to do something at a slower pace. There is always a process to do a thing, in this process, every moment will appear new problems, speed put faster, there is less time to think about the right way to do things, more likely to lead to mistakes.

Everything has a process that should be experienced, want to skip some of the process, quickly to complete it, will only make their previous work has become useless.

A person who works methodically to get everything done will often end up being the one who can make the best use of his time, because in the same time, he gets more done than others.

Do things slowly, do things carefully, increase the rate of one thing, will make time more valuable.

A person always feel that he has not enough time, feel that they have a lot of things to do, but few can do it well, and then produce everything is not going his way.

This is normal, because everyone wants to make the most of his or her life in a short time, but there are always mistakes.

You can calm down and think before you do something, These things, which must be done, which is not necessary to do, which are important, which not important, what is urgent, what are not urgent, according to their own choices first.

Doing things indiscriminately, than planned, methodical, prudent, It is much less efficient to do things slowly. Instead of rushing into things that don’t get good results, it is better to do fewer things and do them well.

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Make him blush and shy by flirting with his boyfriend like this!

As far as I know, a lot of girls around me like to tease their boyfriends. Every time when they “cheat success,” tantalizing boys can not stop, will let them give birth to a special sense of achievement.

And they feel that doing so to a great extent to promote the further development of their feelings between the boyfriend feel full of temptation, more attractive!

Is that no matter what kind of molestation, can achieve this effect? Of course not!

Flirting also requires a certain amount of skill, neither trace, but also make people think about flirting in order to make boys want to stop.

How do you do that? Today I’m going to share with  a hardcore “teasing” technique:


Occasionally small, but very sweet little things


Suddenly paused and said, “Oh, I forgot something!”Before you went out

Then the boy will ask you: “What is it?” At this point, you just pretend to forget and tell him you can’t remember.

Then when he starts getting a little anxious, give him a kiss and tell him that’s it.

He will be angry with you and Speechless, calling you a little rascal.


When you are a child, you will certainly be taken care of by your mother, helping to dress and then carefully arranging your clothes when you go out. This kind of childhood memories will remain in the subconscious until adulthood.

So when you carefully for a boy to tidy his collar, or help him tidy his scarf, tie, he will feel that moment of you very gentle.

So when your boyfriend goes out,You can suddenly say, “Wait a minute.” Then he reached out to straighten his tie and straighten his collar.

At that moment, without any words, just one simple act was enough to stop his heart.


When he thanked you and said how nice you were, you said : “Dear, remember to give five stars!” Then point to your cheek. At this point, he will surely kiss up.

Then wait for him to finish kissing, you say: “kiss, this is three stars praise, not five stars oh.”

“How does that qualify as five stars?” he must have asked.

You open your hands and say, “That’s five stars.” Then he’s gonna give you a big hug.


A little dirty, but a cute prank.


Gently approached him, gently looked at him, on tiptoe, slowly reached out to hold his neck, with a bit shy, to go up.

Then slip the hand that has just taken the chilled watermelon through his collar and into his back, especially in the winter.

The excitement of fire and ice will certainly make him unforgettable.


Pretend to be serious, after running, such cheating makes bad, will make him like you more!

For example, the two of you are watching TV on the couch, You put your head on his shoulder, and then gently with your finger in his thigh to draw a circle, tease his heart itching when, wink and ask him: “Do you want to do something together?”

Wait for him excited and surprised to ask you: “Now?” Or cheerfully say: “Well, well, then come on,” you then lightly answer: “well, now let’s do the housework!”

Remember to say that after you must pretend to be serious, as if nothing has happened silently walk away. Ensure that after three seconds, your boyfriend will be angry and come after you for “revenge.”

Ladies and gentlemen, this technique can be used in many scenes, such as when you are reading in the library, playing games together and so on. When he is taken the bait, you can ask him to do his homework and cook together.

Such bad pranks will make your otherwise plain and boring daily life more interesting!


What if you’re not together and you want to hit on him?

Don’t worry, Chat flirt can still achieve the same effect., like this:

Send him a voice, with a soft ambiguous, very provocative tone asked him: “Husband, do you want to see my shower photos ah?”

When he is shy and excited to express “want,” send a picture of “date” to him.

Or Chat ask him: “Husband ~ do you want to see a small Sexy photos ah?”

Then whether his answer is yes or no, please throw him a Sexy  picture of you.

In addition, you can also give full play to your creativity, in a variety of ways to “flirt” with him, anyway, away from him, itching his heart can not be afraid, he can not do anything to you.

Love, talk about two people’s emotions,If you can like this “molest” him, arouse the other party’s emotions, then also worry about the love between you boring, boring no topic?

For the rest of your life, seeking for someone with similar interests and you will have a very happy life

Life is short and long. we need to live it with our heart.Every day it’s eating.sleeping. working.and resting. Many times I repeat the monotonous life. If there is an interesting person by my side for the rest of my life. it will make this life much happier.

In the world of two people there will be many good things and many sad things. If two people have stepped into the ocean of love only because of their temporary appreciation and have not deeply understood each other’s tastes then it is very likely that there will be greater disturbances in the future getting along.

If two people are very optimistic about each other’s interest from the beginning. it will invisibly add points to the two people’s feelings and the naturally cultivated emotional foundation will be stronger.

Because you have a hobby that both parties like you will not feel so boring in the process of getting along, and you will often feel the fun that the other party brings to yourself. In a fun-filled environment every day.the relationship between the two parties will of course be very harmonious and life will naturally be very happy.

If two people have hobbies that each other likes they can use this as a bridge to enhance communication and make each other’s feelings more intimate. There will be fewer and fewer gaps and contradictions in your life and your happy days will become more and more.

In the exchange of your interests your feelings will unknowingly get closer. gradually bringing your relationship closer together and your interest will slowly lead you to love to the good life that belongs to you and add excitement to your love.

Love is a process from wonderful to plain. No matter how sweet and romantic you were before, you will return to plainness in the end. No matter how beautiful eachother was before, and how yearning for the future of life. in the end. he could not escape the ordinary life of firewood. rice. oil and salt.

But if you have the same interests your life will be a bit more fun than others and a touch of beauty will emerge in the ordinary. In fact. no matter how strong love cannot be separated from life.

The like-minded people we are talking about will of course also include life. You must know that a person who is used to going to bed early and getting up early cannot accept that the other half likes to stay up until dawn. It can be seen that these interests in life are also very important.

Hobbies can be used as a fresh-keeping agent in love, while interest in life habits can be used as a stabilizer in life. Only by being familiar with each other’s living habits and knowing how to take care of each other’s lives can we maintain the stability and peace of the two people’s long-term life.

In life. partners who can live a stable life are often familiar with each other’s food. clothing. housing and transportation. such as favorite tastes. colors and dislike topics. etc. These details are continuously collected and gradually become Habit. this is the real fusion with the other party’s interests.

People who really know how to love each other know how to love life. To fall in love is to start from loving life. Only when you give yourself positive energy can you have the ability to fall in love with others and then you can pursue an interesting life between two people.

People with interest tend to have deep knowledge in dealing with life. When you get along with this kind of person. you will always feel the joy of life. There is no lack of happiness around this kind of person.because they can understand the ordinary in life. The little things are exquisitely dressed, and every little detail in life is unearthed and processed, and finally becomes the interesting appearance he wants.

With such a person, you will feel the surprise of life at any time. Gradually, you will be influenced  and become an interesting person, so that two people can work together to discover more beautiful things in life.

The rest of your life is very long. Instead of living a lifeless life, it is better to find someone who understands the fun of life to accompany you through it.

In fact, most people still think that the time is very short.So there is no time to waste, we must act quickly, Cause you can think over the time. one year? Five years? ten years? How many decades are there in life?

silence, talk, freedom of speech

Chat with boys minefield, which have you stepped on? Early change, early off!


‘Why is he ignoring me again’ , ‘We talked again.what to do!’ ‘whoo-woo, he said he was going to take a bath.but it’s been three hours. Why don’t you come back’I often get similar questions from some girls. saying that I don’t know how to talk to boys. I don’t know how to talk.

In fact. chat with the boys. is a particularly wonderful, but there are many hidden minefields.sometimes a little careless will directly chat burst.So how can we avoid and boys a chat. so that your chat atmosphere no longer instantly dropped to freezing point.

The key is to avoid the minefield cleverly and not talk hard. You know.some words can be said, others can not be said that, and some can not say that.

Because maybe it is because of your words. will let you originally form a good relationship got bad.

So what are some chat minefields we should avoid?


Check post type chat

Some girls. before they have a formal relationship with a boy, start to pretend to be girlfriends.Often with the tone of check gang chat with the that the boy has not been with her immediately began to fear up, and then to her at a distance.

A lot of peopel will be curious.what kind of chat is the chat? Let me give you an example and you will quickly understand:

The boy went out to play with his friends at night and didn’t talk to the girl as usual. Then the following conversation appeared.

Girl: What are you doing?

Guy: Hanging out with my friends

Girl: Oh.where did you play?

Boy: A friend’s birthday.we eat dinner together and sing  songs.

Girl: Oh. with whom? Who are they? Any girls?


You kno., originally.continuous questioning will make people feel oppressive and don’t want to talk to you. And the issue of usurpation of identity  but also can make boys fear for your future relationship.

Do you think you two are not officially together. you check gang check so strict then if really together then there is freedom to speak of?






Break the casserole to ask in the end, everything to ask why, for learning is a spirit worth learning.But if it is in the middle of a chat with the opposite sex. it can seem particularly offensive.

For example. a boy did not return the girl’s information in time. the girl asked the boy:


Why are you ignoring me?

What are you doing? Why did you text me so late?

For this kind of up on the boys all kinds of heckling girls, I really want to say you are not the boss of the other people.

People have their own things. who will not serve you 24 hours to chat with you and you this pair of people owe you 80 million tone.people will be willing to deal with you on the ghost.

Don’t say you’re not in a relationship. Even if you are.the other person will feel uncomfortable because of your heckling.



Some girls. in order to show that they are ‘knowledgeable’ talk at length with boys. A large section of self-hi. also secretly proud.

Please. girl. stop wallowing in your own world.

Look carefully at the response. if the other person is not very interested and engaged in your topic but occasionally polite and brief ‘deal’ with you. Then you have to stop in time ah!

Although if you want boys to like must show your charm to attract boys but the right medicine is effective ah! Just like a cat likes to eat fish but you give it a bone then it will not be interested.


Boring opening

A lot of girls as long as a boy to mouth is ‘what?’ The regular greeting every day except ‘good morning’ is ‘good night’.

 Ah. you so boring chat mode. day after day with boys chat. even if the boys do not bother you. you do not feel tired of it?

Chat to know how to find a need to know an interesting opening line. How can you successfully attract a guy to talk to you with this boring opening?On the contrary. it will only make boys think you are a boring person and put you in the safety period!

(If you don’t already know how to funny the opening.can’t find a better opening than’what are you doing? ‘Better used opening line. which can be found in Official Account message template Background send the keyword ‘opening’can learn more useful opening form oh! )



They keep keep voicing.

As we’ve said before sending voice messages and live photos from time to time can bring you closer.make you feel intimate and full of surprises.But you know. send voice but also to see the occasion ah!

Sometimes you keep sending voice messages the other side is back to your text and usually for a long time. Then obviously. this time the other party is in the occasion may not be convenient to listen to voice.

But you don’t think about the other person’s situation, only focus on your own feelings. this will make people think you are a person who doesn’t know how to read or a more self-care about their own feelings.

Sometimes this kind of behavior will only make people do not want to chat with you.don’t want to return your messages.


Don’t know how to close

Some little fairies. not will not open.nor will not find a topic, is in the end of the topic of this not know how to stop.

Originally in front of the boy chat atmosphere is good but then this topic chat about almost she temporarily can not think of a better topic than before on the non-stop wheel to say back and forth, topsy-turvy repetition.

So boys will obviously appear tired mood. originally good chat will once into the cold.Originally in front of a good chat to the end is just to be integrate into the counter effect.

Know how to close the good.timely end the topic.the chat about the end of the topic is to stop, see good on the correct approach.

Most of us have the misconception that ending the conversation is impolite to each other. In fact sometimes has been a chat to the end of the accumulation of negative emotions. it is better to chat in the best state of the point to stop, let the other side of it.

Because after the climax of the’s hard to find another topic that goes beyond it very quickly. So it is better to keep the mood of both sides at the highest point, give each other a little bit of meaning to read.this will make him look forward to your next chat.

In the communication between men and women. chat is a big knowledge.sometimes boys don’t like you. not because you are not good enough. but because you can’t chat.

When you skillfully avoid the chat minefield. gradually let the other party feel pleasure in chatting with you. the other person will be more willing to enjoy your chat.

In this way to let each other gradually fall in love with you chat, chat with you as a habit and daily, and then you develop into an essential part of life, habit existence.

Have we learned a lot of skills? Start a chat now!


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