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Sometimes life needs to slow down to become smoother

Life is short and passes quickly, accidentally life has passed more than half, some people who want to play their value, have to race against time, in a limited time to make infinite possibilities.

But it is not good to do things in haste, Want to do a thing quickly will be very rushed, busy the possibility of mistakes greatly increased, the more want to make a thing, the faster to do one thing, this thing is not a good finish.

Rather than spend a lot of time doing some useless work or even doing negative work, it is better to make good use of the time, concentrate on, careful to do a thing, a thing done, but also to play the value of life.

So, when you feel that your time is not enough, but also everything is not satisfactory, you can properly put some unnecessary things behind you at first, take ease, so that there is better energy to play their value.

I believe everyone has this feeling that work and life in a trouble, all kinds of problems will follow, pile up, this time will be very anxious, very worried, but do not know what to do.

In fact, this time we should slow down, smooth things one by one and  think about the way to cope.

In fact, life, slow down, smooth.

Slow to speak and give yourself time to think.

Speak slowly, means that the speed of speech can slow down some, then the time can be put longer, so that you can have more time to think, what you  should say or  not, the words have no problems in the organization of statements.

After all, when a person says something that shouldn’t be said, there will be some conflict with these obedient people and more time will be wasted to resolve the consequences of the words.

Even because the target is their own relatives or friends similar important people, will greatly affect the relationship each other.

Sometimes the words spoken are more serious than the hurt of hitting, Although that may really be their own inner thoughts, but just for an idea, it is heartily said it, offended should not offend the people, to make enemies for themselves, this is very unwise.

So, if you find that your brain is always saying something that should not be said without thinking, control you’re speaking habits, slow down a little, take a little longer, and think about it more.

Move slowly and give yourself time to consider the consequences.

Act slowly, is to do a thing, to have a certain understanding of the thing to act, not what preparation has not done, eager to want a result.

In many cases, the rush is to prove to others their attitude, To prove their determination, but do not have a good plan for this matter, is easy to make mistakes, the final result often did not change their impression in others, but produced a bigger drop.

Take your time, don’t be so positive, be able to do your own things well, be more real than any attitude, and let others find your value.

Acting slowly will not only make things less error-prone, but also make your own efficiency.

Do things slowly and give yourself time to think about ways.

To do things slowly means to do something at a slower pace. There is always a process to do a thing, in this process, every moment will appear new problems, speed put faster, there is less time to think about the right way to do things, more likely to lead to mistakes.

Everything has a process that should be experienced, want to skip some of the process, quickly to complete it, will only make their previous work has become useless.

A person who works methodically to get everything done will often end up being the one who can make the best use of his time, because in the same time, he gets more done than others.

Do things slowly, do things carefully, increase the rate of one thing, will make time more valuable.

A person always feel that he has not enough time, feel that they have a lot of things to do, but few can do it well, and then produce everything is not going his way.

This is normal, because everyone wants to make the most of his or her life in a short time, but there are always mistakes.

You can calm down and think before you do something, These things, which must be done, which is not necessary to do, which are important, which not important, what is urgent, what are not urgent, according to their own choices first.

Doing things indiscriminately, than planned, methodical, prudent, It is much less efficient to do things slowly. Instead of rushing into things that don’t get good results, it is better to do fewer things and do them well.

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Make him blush and shy by flirting with his boyfriend like this!

As far as I know, a lot of girls around me like to tease their boyfriends. Every time when they “cheat success,” tantalizing boys can not stop, will let them give birth to a special sense of achievement.

And they feel that doing so to a great extent to promote the further development of their feelings between the boyfriend feel full of temptation, more attractive!

Is that no matter what kind of molestation, can achieve this effect? Of course not!

Flirting also requires a certain amount of skill, neither trace, but also make people think about flirting in order to make boys want to stop.

How do you do that? Today I’m going to share with  a hardcore “teasing” technique:


Occasionally small, but very sweet little things


Suddenly paused and said, “Oh, I forgot something!”Before you went out

Then the boy will ask you: “What is it?” At this point, you just pretend to forget and tell him you can’t remember.

Then when he starts getting a little anxious, give him a kiss and tell him that’s it.

He will be angry with you and Speechless, calling you a little rascal.


When you are a child, you will certainly be taken care of by your mother, helping to dress and then carefully arranging your clothes when you go out. This kind of childhood memories will remain in the subconscious until adulthood.

So when you carefully for a boy to tidy his collar, or help him tidy his scarf, tie, he will feel that moment of you very gentle.

So when your boyfriend goes out,You can suddenly say, “Wait a minute.” Then he reached out to straighten his tie and straighten his collar.

At that moment, without any words, just one simple act was enough to stop his heart.


When he thanked you and said how nice you were, you said : “Dear, remember to give five stars!” Then point to your cheek. At this point, he will surely kiss up.

Then wait for him to finish kissing, you say: “kiss, this is three stars praise, not five stars oh.”

“How does that qualify as five stars?” he must have asked.

You open your hands and say, “That’s five stars.” Then he’s gonna give you a big hug.


A little dirty, but a cute prank.


Gently approached him, gently looked at him, on tiptoe, slowly reached out to hold his neck, with a bit shy, to go up.

Then slip the hand that has just taken the chilled watermelon through his collar and into his back, especially in the winter.

The excitement of fire and ice will certainly make him unforgettable.


Pretend to be serious, after running, such cheating makes bad, will make him like you more!

For example, the two of you are watching TV on the couch, You put your head on his shoulder, and then gently with your finger in his thigh to draw a circle, tease his heart itching when, wink and ask him: “Do you want to do something together?”

Wait for him excited and surprised to ask you: “Now?” Or cheerfully say: “Well, well, then come on,” you then lightly answer: “well, now let’s do the housework!”

Remember to say that after you must pretend to be serious, as if nothing has happened silently walk away. Ensure that after three seconds, your boyfriend will be angry and come after you for “revenge.”

Ladies and gentlemen, this technique can be used in many scenes, such as when you are reading in the library, playing games together and so on. When he is taken the bait, you can ask him to do his homework and cook together.

Such bad pranks will make your otherwise plain and boring daily life more interesting!


What if you’re not together and you want to hit on him?

Don’t worry, Chat flirt can still achieve the same effect., like this:

Send him a voice, with a soft ambiguous, very provocative tone asked him: “Husband, do you want to see my shower photos ah?”

When he is shy and excited to express “want,” send a picture of “date” to him.

Or Chat ask him: “Husband ~ do you want to see a small Sexy photos ah?”

Then whether his answer is yes or no, please throw him a Sexy  picture of you.

In addition, you can also give full play to your creativity, in a variety of ways to “flirt” with him, anyway, away from him, itching his heart can not be afraid, he can not do anything to you.

Love, talk about two people’s emotions,If you can like this “molest” him, arouse the other party’s emotions, then also worry about the love between you boring, boring no topic?

For the rest of your life, seeking for someone with similar interests and you will have a very happy life

Life is short and long. we need to live it with our heart.Every day it’s eating.sleeping. working.and resting. Many times I repeat the monotonous life. If there is an interesting person by my side for the rest of my life. it will make this life much happier.

In the world of two people there will be many good things and many sad things. If two people have stepped into the ocean of love only because of their temporary appreciation and have not deeply understood each other’s tastes then it is very likely that there will be greater disturbances in the future getting along.

If two people are very optimistic about each other’s interest from the beginning. it will invisibly add points to the two people’s feelings and the naturally cultivated emotional foundation will be stronger.


Because you have a hobby that both parties like you will not feel so boring in the process of getting along, and you will often feel the fun that the other party brings to yourself. In a fun-filled environment every day.the relationship between the two parties will of course be very harmonious and life will naturally be very happy.

If two people have hobbies that each other likes they can use this as a bridge to enhance communication and make each other’s feelings more intimate. There will be fewer and fewer gaps and contradictions in your life and your happy days will become more and more.

In the exchange of your interests your feelings will unknowingly get closer. gradually bringing your relationship closer together and your interest will slowly lead you to love to the good life that belongs to you and add excitement to your love.

Love is a process from wonderful to plain. No matter how sweet and romantic you were before, you will return to plainness in the end. No matter how beautiful eachother was before, and how yearning for the future of life. in the end. he could not escape the ordinary life of firewood. rice. oil and salt.

But if you have the same interests your life will be a bit more fun than others and a touch of beauty will emerge in the ordinary. In fact. no matter how strong love cannot be separated from life.


The like-minded people we are talking about will of course also include life. You must know that a person who is used to going to bed early and getting up early cannot accept that the other half likes to stay up until dawn. It can be seen that these interests in life are also very important.

Hobbies can be used as a fresh-keeping agent in love, while interest in life habits can be used as a stabilizer in life. Only by being familiar with each other’s living habits and knowing how to take care of each other’s lives can we maintain the stability and peace of the two people’s long-term life.

In life. partners who can live a stable life are often familiar with each other’s food. clothing. housing and transportation. such as favorite tastes. colors and dislike topics. etc. These details are continuously collected and gradually become Habit. this is the real fusion with the other party’s interests.

People who really know how to love each other know how to love life. To fall in love is to start from loving life. Only when you give yourself positive energy can you have the ability to fall in love with others and then you can pursue an interesting life between two people.

People with interest tend to have deep knowledge in dealing with life. When you get along with this kind of person. you will always feel the joy of life. There is no lack of happiness around this kind of person.because they can understand the ordinary in life. The little things are exquisitely dressed, and every little detail in life is unearthed and processed, and finally becomes the interesting appearance he wants.

With such a person, you will feel the surprise of life at any time. Gradually, you will be influenced  and become an interesting person, so that two people can work together to discover more beautiful things in life.

The rest of your life is very long. Instead of living a lifeless life, it is better to find someone who understands the fun of life to accompany you through it.

In fact, most people still think that the time is very short.So there is no time to waste, we must act quickly, Cause you can think over the time. one year? Five years? ten years? How many decades are there in life?

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Chat with boys minefield, which have you stepped on? Early change, early off!


‘Why is he ignoring me again’ , ‘We talked again.what to do!’ ‘whoo-woo, he said he was going to take a bath.but it’s been three hours. Why don’t you come back’I often get similar questions from some girls. saying that I don’t know how to talk to boys. I don’t know how to talk.

In fact. chat with the boys. is a particularly wonderful, but there are many hidden minefields.sometimes a little careless will directly chat burst.So how can we avoid and boys a chat. so that your chat atmosphere no longer instantly dropped to freezing point.

The key is to avoid the minefield cleverly and not talk hard. You know.some words can be said, others can not be said that, and some can not say that.

Because maybe it is because of your words. will let you originally form a good relationship got bad.

So what are some chat minefields we should avoid?


Check post type chat

Some girls. before they have a formal relationship with a boy, start to pretend to be girlfriends.Often with the tone of check gang chat with the that the boy has not been with her immediately began to fear up, and then to her at a distance.

A lot of peopel will be curious.what kind of chat is the chat? Let me give you an example and you will quickly understand:

The boy went out to play with his friends at night and didn’t talk to the girl as usual. Then the following conversation appeared.

Girl: What are you doing?

Guy: Hanging out with my friends

Girl: Oh.where did you play?

Boy: A friend’s birthday.we eat dinner together and sing  songs.

Girl: Oh. with whom? Who are they? Any girls?


You kno., originally.continuous questioning will make people feel oppressive and don’t want to talk to you. And the issue of usurpation of identity  but also can make boys fear for your future relationship.

Do you think you two are not officially together. you check gang check so strict then if really together then there is freedom to speak of?






Break the casserole to ask in the end, everything to ask why, for learning is a spirit worth learning.But if it is in the middle of a chat with the opposite sex. it can seem particularly offensive.

For example. a boy did not return the girl’s information in time. the girl asked the boy:


Why are you ignoring me?

What are you doing? Why did you text me so late?

For this kind of up on the boys all kinds of heckling girls, I really want to say you are not the boss of the other people.

People have their own things. who will not serve you 24 hours to chat with you and you this pair of people owe you 80 million tone.people will be willing to deal with you on the ghost.

Don’t say you’re not in a relationship. Even if you are.the other person will feel uncomfortable because of your heckling.



Some girls. in order to show that they are ‘knowledgeable’ talk at length with boys. A large section of self-hi. also secretly proud.

Please. girl. stop wallowing in your own world.

Look carefully at the response. if the other person is not very interested and engaged in your topic but occasionally polite and brief ‘deal’ with you. Then you have to stop in time ah!

Although if you want boys to like must show your charm to attract boys but the right medicine is effective ah! Just like a cat likes to eat fish but you give it a bone then it will not be interested.


Boring opening

A lot of girls as long as a boy to mouth is ‘what?’ The regular greeting every day except ‘good morning’ is ‘good night’.

 Ah. you so boring chat mode. day after day with boys chat. even if the boys do not bother you. you do not feel tired of it?

Chat to know how to find a need to know an interesting opening line. How can you successfully attract a guy to talk to you with this boring opening?On the contrary. it will only make boys think you are a boring person and put you in the safety period!

(If you don’t already know how to funny the opening.can’t find a better opening than’what are you doing? ‘Better used opening line. which can be found in Official Account message template Background send the keyword ‘opening’can learn more useful opening form oh! )



They keep keep voicing.

As we’ve said before sending voice messages and live photos from time to time can bring you closer.make you feel intimate and full of surprises.But you know. send voice but also to see the occasion ah!

Sometimes you keep sending voice messages the other side is back to your text and usually for a long time. Then obviously. this time the other party is in the occasion may not be convenient to listen to voice.

But you don’t think about the other person’s situation, only focus on your own feelings. this will make people think you are a person who doesn’t know how to read or a more self-care about their own feelings.

Sometimes this kind of behavior will only make people do not want to chat with you.don’t want to return your messages.


Don’t know how to close

Some little fairies. not will not open.nor will not find a topic, is in the end of the topic of this not know how to stop.

Originally in front of the boy chat atmosphere is good but then this topic chat about almost she temporarily can not think of a better topic than before on the non-stop wheel to say back and forth, topsy-turvy repetition.

So boys will obviously appear tired mood. originally good chat will once into the cold.Originally in front of a good chat to the end is just to be integrate into the counter effect.

Know how to close the good.timely end the topic.the chat about the end of the topic is to stop, see good on the correct approach.

Most of us have the misconception that ending the conversation is impolite to each other. In fact sometimes has been a chat to the end of the accumulation of negative emotions. it is better to chat in the best state of the point to stop, let the other side of it.

Because after the climax of the’s hard to find another topic that goes beyond it very quickly. So it is better to keep the mood of both sides at the highest point, give each other a little bit of meaning to read.this will make him look forward to your next chat.

In the communication between men and women. chat is a big knowledge.sometimes boys don’t like you. not because you are not good enough. but because you can’t chat.

When you skillfully avoid the chat minefield. gradually let the other party feel pleasure in chatting with you. the other person will be more willing to enjoy your chat.

In this way to let each other gradually fall in love with you chat, chat with you as a habit and daily, and then you develop into an essential part of life, habit existence.

Have we learned a lot of skills? Start a chat now!


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