In fact, no girl is destined to be a leftover girl. It is very simple to get rid of the curse of being a single dog. You only need to do these points.
become Snow White
Before you meet Prince Charming, make yourself Snow White first.
You always say that you can’t meet Prince Charming, so have you ever asked yourself, are you Snow White?
Good people deserve better, it is only right. Why don’t you have to work hard, organize your mood, and dress up your appearance.
You can wait for someone who is pleasing to the eye and has a good character to appear. A sloppy person who just wants to meet the prince is trash, who would love him?
You can be beautiful, but you can’t be confident.
Many girls are insecure because of their appearance. When you get up and look in the mirror every day, you just brush your teeth, wash your face, and routinely check yourself in the mirror to see if you are clean and have a few wrinkles.
I don’t even bother to dress myself up, and I don’t even have the courage to try it for free when I see expensive clothes and cosmetics in the mall.
Try to see yourself with new eyes, maybe your legs are a little short, but your hips are very upturned, maybe your belly is a little fleshy, but your collarbone is beautiful.
You have to believe that everyone has their own advantages.
What you need to do is to see and use your strengths and accept your weaknesses, instead of magnifying your weaknesses infinitely.
Learn to dress yourself up, make yourself delicate, and don’t deny yourself because of your appearance.
Don’t always stand still
To find true love, don’t always stand still.
People who don’t know how to love will only hope that the other person will love them.
When you meet a boy who makes your heart flutter, you will only watch from a distance, then secretly keep it in your heart, watch and watch, suddenly one day you find that another girl likes him too, and confesses to him, and then the two of them came together.
In fact, that girl is not better than you, but she has more courage than you.
When you meet a guy who comes after you, the guy will always do this and that for you. However, because of your face, you always put on a high air and don’t respond.
Over time, the boy will think that you don’t like him at all, or even feel that he is always giving, feel very tired, and finally choose to give up.
In fact, you like this boy very much in your heart, but because of the girl’s restraint and pride, you deliberately maintain a proud attitude.
You won’t regret it until he’s gone.
Learn to respond and try to get out. When a guy cooks a meal for you, you can actually pour him a glass of water and say a few sweet words.
When a boy gives you a bouquet of flowers, you can actually give him a hug and say “thank you”.
Don’t always wait for the other party to treat you well, you can also take the initiative to surprise him on his birthday, and accompany him to relax when he is lost.
Don’t always stand in place and wait for love to come by itself.
When you meet a guy you like, learn to take the initiative. When you meet a boy you like and also like you, you must know how to lower your posture and learn to respond.
Don’t pursue perfectionism
No one is perfect, don’t pursue perfectionism.
Many girls are prone to perfectionism. If they like a person, they hope that everything about him is what they like.
For example, how much height must be achieved, what educational qualifications must be, how good personality must be, and so on.
Life is often not that beautiful, most of the time it’s just plain and real. Girls, don’t be too deeply influenced by the movie, there are too many romantic scenes in the movie, too many perfect lovers.
Those too idealistic visions will only bury your rationality and miss your love.
A person can’t be perfect, and a relationship can’t be perfect. A person’s advantages must also have corresponding disadvantages.
For example, a person may treat others well, but he may also be an old-fashioned person who will not reject others. A person is talented, but he may be too proud of himself because of his talent.
Don’t be glass-hearted, because a boy’s shortcomings will completely deny him.
Don’t try to change him all at once, you have to believe that he has been alive for the 20 or 30 years before he met you.
Run in slowly, I believe you will get better and better.
No girl is destined to be a leftover girl, and no one can only be a single dog. By mastering the above criteria, you can get out of singleness and find the Mr.right that belongs to you.