In our relationship, we will encounter problems and troubles, sometimes because of the other party, sometimes because of ourselves. Once, I met a girl who was in 5 relationships, and each relationship lasted no more than three months.
She asked me what was wrong with her, why her love life was so bad, and she always met all kinds of bad boys.
And my answer is: when a relationship is like this, maybe because of the other party, you are really not suitable. But the same 5 relationships are like this, then you should review it to see if the problem lies with you.
The ending of a bleak relationship can be avoided, but the way to avoid it is not to study the horoscope, not to count the tarot cards, but to understand the laws of love and improve your love skills.
Today, I will teach you three very important love skills, so that you can avoid frequent pitfalls on the road of love.
Can let go, but not glass-hearted
Girls who like a person can also take the initiative, and do not necessarily have to wait silently in place. But when taking the initiative, we also have to pay attention to the method, “be able to let go and not be shy.” Such a criterion is very necessary in the process of our active pursuit.
What exactly is the practice of “being able to let go, not being glass-hearted”? In fact, in the process of your interaction, don’t be squeamish, chat, interact, and even be ambiguous with him generously.
But you are never eager to take the initiative to confirm the relationship, because you don’t need the so-called “clear relationship” at all. Believe me, with such a confident and generous you, in the end, boys can’t help but want to ask you in turn, want to be with you Determine the relationship.
You must know that this approach will firstly make you appear confident, and secondly, it will make the other party feel that you are mysterious and attractive because they cannot be sure of your intentions.
If this method is used properly, coupled with your own good or even excellent conditions, there will definitely be many boys who will be won by you obediently.
Recently I met too many fans and told me that I felt that boys liked me too, so I took the initiative to confess, but the other party said that they didn’t like me at all and rejected me. These girls don’t understand what boys are thinking and why they are developing. That’s it.
Here, I want to tell the girls again, don’t take the initiative to confess, don’t take the initiative to confess, don’t take the initiative to confess!
If a guy is interested in you, and you are the one being chased, all you have to do is respond well.
Not arrogant or impetuous, not noisy or noisy. When a guy takes the initiative to find you, (if you are interested in him) respond well to him and make him feel that his initiative is worthwhile.
why? If you have ever been the one who took the initiative to kneel and lick, you must know that taking the initiative is actually really tiring.
So, girls, take care of yourself and others, please treat the person who takes the initiative to find you, don’t always put on a lofty attitude, it will really make you tired.
When one day he can’t take it any longer, he will resolutely choose to leave, put away all the good things he has for you, and give you back all the neglect and indifference you once gave to him. .
By the time you realize that he’s already a part of your life, you’re the only one left.
maintain a unified personality
Many girls are completely different before falling in love and after falling in love. Before falling in love, they were a cute and knowledgeable little girl, but after falling in love, they became rambunctious and unreasonable.
You know, many people like a person and want to fall in love with him because they are attracted by his previous appearance.
You have such a huge contrast before and after, it will inevitably make people feel that the goods are wrong and have been “deceived”.
Therefore, before falling in love and after falling in love, please maintain a unified personality (at least not too far away). In a relationship, what boys are most afraid of in the final analysis is that the contrast between the front and the back of the girl is too great, and they are different from each other.
If you set out to be perfect in front of him from the beginning, then please be perfect to the end. If you don’t plan on pretending all the time, try to show him your little flaws in a slow and gradual way.
You must not be strictly guarded before falling in love. When you fall in love, you will feel that rice has become cooked and become unscrupulous. This is very easy to scare the boys away!
Whether you are a person or in love, the most indispensable thing is self-precipitation. Not all failures are caused by others. You must learn to reflect on yourself and grow into a better version of yourself. Only then can you say goodbye to past failures and embrace better ones. everything!