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    Teenagers during their growing up and become adult time spending hours on thinking about more adult matters like future, satisfied work, good education and obviously dating. When it comes for dating sources says that even Teens around 12 years old are starting to meet opposite sex to spend time together. Many of teens despite of their age struggle a lot and feel uncomfortable while dating and have no idea what is expected from them on a date. However they are ashamed and scared to ask parents about some tips and advices for proper behavior. In this article we would like to recommend a few useful tips for a successful date.

    For Girls:

    Find the right person. This is the hardest part when it comes for dating however you can deal with this well. Remember to check possible date around your classmates or your school friends. Be selective and do not agree for going out with a person who you don’t like just because you pity this person or you feel alone. Don’t be desperate. Also we recommend dating boys around your age since their maturity level is similar to yours. Before planning something serious get to know the boy who you are hanging out with.

    Staying safe and drama free. This is another crucial point in successful dating to keep you safe. Young girls are easy target for any kind of abusive behavior. Make sure you are ready to start dating. There’s no need to be hurry. You have all life ahead so if you start dating now or in couple of months don’t make a big difference. Remember there’s no age when you are supposed to date. It's important to mentally set boundaries for yourself before you start dating. Otherwise, you may find yourself getting into situations you don't want to be in. Also remember to use protection. Sex is risky if you cannot keep yourself protected either from unexpected pregnancy or any kind of STDs. If you have a best female friend try to organize a group date. It’s awesome and alternative idea of dating if you are still afraid to meet your date face-to-face alone. Keep your relationship out of public until you both decided this is proper moment to get things official. This will keep you away from any kind of drama and bad comments from other people. Watch out for red flags. Red flags are things your date may do or say that are warning signs of a bad relationship or even abuse to come. To keep safe and ready for any bad situation always remember to tell your parent or guardian where and with whom you are going to meet.

    Going on a date. Prepare yourself well, wear your best and most comfy clothes however try to look a bit elegant. Apply light makeup if you feel like doing so. This will make a good impression on your date. Don’t be late! If you know that you’re going to be late inform your boy by short text message or call. Try to avoid touchy subjects especially when it’s your one of first dates. To stay out of drama you should probably not bring up or discuss certain sensitive topic. It’s good to offer to pay or do a “Dutch pay” – sharing pay. If you are interested in another date with this same boy, try to talk about it before you both say goodbye. Be yourself, keep it cool and the most importantly, relax.

    For Boys:

    Be respectful.First and foremost, your girlfriend will want to feel like you care about her as a person, not as an object. Many young boys are treating their dates as kind of achievement. Don’t be one of them. Be a gentleman and show your interests in dating her.

    Offer to pay for the date. This will make your date feel you like them more than your money and this is in right tone. However, depends on the girl, she might feel uncomfortable and would rather go into sharing payment or pay for herself. Don’t take it too personal and let her do what she wants.

    Be yourself.Offer to carry her books for her, open doors for her and call her parents Mr. and Mrs. when you meet them. Be a gentleman and show right behavior in any situation.

    Practice chivalry with women. Offer to carry her books for her, open doors for her and call her parents Mr. and Mrs. when you meet them. Be a gentleman and show right behavior in any situation.

    Talk to your partner.Let them know some of your interests, whether it's in movies, books, or music. It’s good to know each other’s passions and for sure will lead you to be more close and serious in a relationship. Of course remember the things your girlfriend likes and surprise her with a small gift related to her hobbies.

    Give compliments.Smile while speaking, make eye contact consistently and always look directly at your date when they talk to you. It’s highly forbidden to play mobile phone while have a chat with your date, or avoid eye contact. This way your date is not going to work. Smile a lot to show your date you're having fun and that you genuinely like her.

    Subtly show your interest. Smile while speaking, make eye contact consistently and always look directly at your date when they talk to you. It’s highly forbidden to play mobile phone while have a chat with your date, or avoid eye contact. This way your date is not going to work. Smile a lot to show your date you're having fun and that you genuinely like her.

    React properly. If your partner is not reacting well to the date, does not want to hold hands when you try to hold it or doesn’t speak to you easily then back off for a while. However if you feel like your partner is being bored, cut the date and take her home.

    Teenager dating is a hard and challenging matter however if you keep in mind those tips we presented above, you will success. Please remember that dating ability comes with a matter of time and need lots of practice. If you fail or end up with broken heart, remember there are many ups and downs in life and you shouldn’t be depressed and give up everything. Practice makes perfect. Good luck.

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