Some girls always struggle over and over again on one issue, tossing and turning, that is – “He really love me or not?”
Is the answer to this question really so difficult? In fact, not necessarily, sometimes, it is just because we are in it that the authorities are obsessed.
Try to get out of the way and observe and analyze with a calm mind, and the answer will be obvious.
Today I will teach you a very useful chat self-examination technique to test how much a man loves you.
As long as you analyze your chat records, you can clearly know whether he loves you or not?
If you’re chatting with a guy, always be positive and respond quickly to his messages. But it always takes a long time for him to reply to you, sometimes even after several days.
Then this is a typical “negative” chat – you reply to his message in seconds, and he replies to your message after in days.it means that he doesn’t interest on you.
Of course, everyone is busy, especially if a guy is very good, then he may devote a lot of time to study and career, so it is inevitable that sometimes when you send him a message, he will reply Slow down.
But if he always delays for a long time every time he responds to your message, and sometimes even reply to you after a day or two, then undoubtedly, his investment in you is very limited, then the degree of his love for you is also limited.
Be careful, it doesn’t mean that a guy doesn’t love you if he responds slowly to your message. Don’t be like some girls. If a guy doesn’t reply to himself after ten minutes or an hour or two, he will be in all kinds of entanglements. All kinds of doubts that boys do not love themselves.
What I’m talking about is that boys don’t reply to you for a long time, sometimes even a day or two, and this frequency of replying has become the norm. This is a sign that boys don’t love you.
A thousand years to wait for a chat
In addition to the length of time a guy responds to your messages, the frequency with which he contacts you is also an important indicator of whether he loves you.
If you chat with a guy, you start a topic, and every time you talk to him, he responds to you.
And the number of times he takes the initiative to chat with you is very small, it is simply “wait for a thousand years”, then he must not love you enough.
So, take out your phone, look through your chat history with him, check the date, and see if the person who opens the conversation is always you?
Under normal circumstances, it should be almost half and half of two people. Even if a boy likes you more and you are in a high position in the relationship, it should be the boy who takes the initiative more often.
So, to see if a boy doesn’t love you, just see if he is always chatting with you in an interactive way of “waiting for a thousand years”.
Cherish words like gold
There are also some boys who always cherish words when chatting with girls, as if saying one more word will kill them.
This type of boy generally has three behaviors when chatting with girls:
short opening remarks
Every time I take the initiative to find you, the words are always super short, either “Are you there?” .
Boys like this are generally likely to cast a wide net. Maybe when he sent you this message, he also sent it to many other girls, just to see who was interested in him and who would put more value in him.
If he meets a girl who is more interested in him and returns to him, then he will naturally be more willing to chat with that girl, and will naturally ignore you.
You send a “small composition” but he replies with “keywords”
There are other guys, although he doesn’t “cast a wide net” and treat you like a fish. But in the process of chatting, the level of slackness is also unbearable.
You chatted with him excitedly and sent him a long message, which was almost as long as a “small composition”. But when he replied to you, it was only two or three words, just like keywords.
Some people say that the number of words a person replies to you is proportional to his love for you. In fact, sometimes this sentence is not unreasonable.
Emoji pack perfunctory reply
There is another kind of reply, even if he doesn’t bother to type hyphens, no matter what you say to him, he will reply you with an emoji.
You told him something happened today that made you feel so sad, and he replied you with a emoji.
You tell him that the weather is getting colder, remember to add clothes, and he will reply with emoji again.
For him, expressions are everything, because he finds it troublesome to type a word for you. You ask how much he loves you? Then you count the number of words he replies to you.
Like the cold king
There is also a kind of boy who replies to you in a timely manner and doesn’t use emojis to perfunctory you, but he always embarrassed the scene when you chat with him, and is often cold.
Obviously every time you open a particularly good chat topic, but he always refuses to answer, and often use few words to end the chats within second.
You look at his circle of friends and know that he has gone abroad recently, and then you tell him, how is the journey? I’ve been to XX place too. It’s very fun and the food is very delicious. Have you been there?
Then he replies to you: Mmmm, okay. Didn’t go.
You know he also likes some star very much, and also went to concerts. So you said to him: Wow, you went to the concert too? I went too that day!
He will say to you: Oh, nice.
These replies can feel a cool wind blowing across the screen, making people feel a cool feeling.
Yes, don’t doubt, the reason why he can’t talk so much is just because he doesn’t like you.
There is a saying that is good, it depends on whether a person loves you, not what he said, but what he did for you.
But if a person is unwilling to invest even in the value of “speaking”, and he is slack and perfunctory even in speaking, then what do you expect him to do for you?
Babies, when you meet such a boy, please stop worrying and entanglement.
Since it is obvious that he is so uninterested in you, why should we lose our dignity to beg and wag our tails.