When you don’t value yourself and your boundaries, your relationships get ruined. With that, you lose respect and a positive outlook on life. Therefore it is necessary to keep your self-respect intact and never beg someone to put the same level of effort and love into relationships. Here are some cons of begging someone to stay. Here are some cons of begging someone to stay. They will help you navigate why you should never do so and live a life of contentment.
- He will never respect you: If you think that begging your partner to stay in a relationship will make him fall back in love with you and start respecting you like before, I am afraid to tell you that it is usually not possible. It is hard to re-establish the same kind of love, care, attachment and respect once it’s lost. So try to accept that your relationship is over and move on with your life.
- He will start taking you for granted: It is one of the most common problems in a relationship. When you feel like you’ve been used and taken for granted, take a stand for yourself and try to figure out whether this relationship needs a further push or not.
- Your relationship turns toxic: When the other person doesn’t want to stay in a relationship, he will initiate fights over minor issues. You can resolve them if you work together, but he will start finding reasons to leave you. Well, in that case, do whatever you think is best for yourself and your mental health.
The Bright Side of Not Caring About Them Leaving
You will start working on yourself when you stop caring about who will stay in your life and who will not, and you will eventually be able to see who deserves your energy and time and who does not.
You are too precious to waste your emotions on the people who are not willing to stay. Always keep the exit door open for people like them and let them go.