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Why You Should Never Beg Someone To Stay

When you don’t value yourself and your boundaries, your relationships get ruined. With that, you lose respect and a positive outlook on life. Therefore it is necessary to keep your self-respect intact and never beg someone to put the same level of effort and love into relationships. Here are some cons of begging someone to stay.  Here are some cons of begging someone to stay. They will help you navigate why you should never do so and live a life of contentment.

  1. He will never respect you: If you think that begging your partner to stay in a relationship will make him fall back in love with you and start respecting you like before, I am afraid to tell you that it is usually not possible. It is hard to re-establish the same kind of love, care, attachment and respect once it’s lost. So try to accept that your relationship is over and move on with your life.
  • He will start taking you for granted: It is one of the most common problems in a relationship. When you feel like you’ve been used and taken for granted, take a stand for yourself and try to figure out whether this relationship needs a further push or not.
  • Your relationship turns toxic: When the other person doesn’t want to stay in a relationship, he will initiate fights over minor issues. You can resolve them if you work together, but he will start finding reasons to leave you. Well, in that case, do whatever you think is best for yourself and your mental health.

The Bright Side of Not Caring About Them Leaving

You will start working on yourself when you stop caring about who will stay in your life and who will not, and you will eventually be able to see who deserves your energy and time and who does not.

You are too precious to waste your emotions on the people who are not willing to stay. Always keep the exit door open for people like them and let them go.

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How To Avoid Fights In A Relationship

Unresolved issues and a bunch of childish misunderstandings can lead to arguments that are usually avoidable. Therefore if something bothers you or hurts you about your significant other, care to discuss it with them and sort it out. Here are some ways to avoid fights in a relationship.

Confront your partner if something is bothering you: Most of the time, when people say mean things, they fail to realize how it is going to affect the other person. So it is necessary to confront them respectfully and explain your thought process in a positive way.

Do not lie to get the other person’s attention: When you twist the truth to get your partner’s attention, serious consequences take place. By practising acceptance, making your boundaries, and sticking to them, you can avoid this behaviour of yours.

Stop victim-blaming: Victim-blaming can not only leave a negative impact on your relationship but on both of you as well. If you have made any mistake, have enough courage to accept it, apologize sincerely and make peace with your partner.

Watch your tone: The saying, “It’s not what you say, but how you say it,” has become so commonly used and is actually very true. In the heat of the moment, people get so furious that they say things they don’t mean in a much louder and aggressive tone. In order to clear things out, speak in a low pitch and explain your side properly.

Give your partner and yourself space: Personal and private space is as important as any other requirement of a healthy relationship. Giving each other time to do your own thing is a great sign of a healthy relationship, and it helps to give closer attention to our sentiments. So to avoid fights in a relationship, we must start by fixing ourselves.

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5 Practical Ways of Avoiding Toxicity In Your Relationship

Life is unpredictable and does not always follow the basic patterns of happiness, peace and love. There can be days where you dwell in feelings of discontent and misery. These sorts of ups and downs of life are inevitable and can eventually affect your relationships. Therefore, in order to keep the spark alive, you can follow some healthy practices and steer clear of toxicity.

1. Trust your partner

Trust is needed to build the foundation of your relationship, and if the foundation is shaky, it is tough to create a stronger bond and overcome any complications.

2. Keep open communication

It is necessary to openly communicate with your partner and share your feelings, thoughts and opinions. Some people fear rejection so much that they end up damaging their relationship, as well as their own mental well-being.

3. Stop comparing your partner with your ex

Long-lasting issues arise when you overshare your ex’s wrongdoings and your past relationship struggles with your new partner. They will no longer see you as a victim. And assume that this bitterness will also have a damaging impact on them.

4. Refrain from controlling your partner

Dominating and controlling behaviour instils a lack of confidence in the other person. Avoid getting upset if they don’t text or call back immediately, as it is one of the reasons for the development of toxicity in your relationship.

5. Show love more often

“We often love our partner the way we want to be loved,” Cook says. Showering your partner with love should not be an occasional thing; it should be done more often than you think. Getting each other little presents, going out on special dates and having meaningful conversations should not be limited to birthdays and anniversaries. They should extend to every other weekend. These little activities not only convey your love to your partner but keep the spark alive.

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5 Things To Notice While Choosing Him As Your Partner

As we all know, finding someone who is mature, pure, humble, and down to earth in this cruel and robotic world seems tough and almost not possible. But some people are fortunate enough to meet the love of their life and enjoy their lives together in peace.

So while choosing someone to share your breakfast dates and movie nights, there are few things you should consider.

1. Observe his behaviour with other women

If he does not respect other women and does not really care about his ways of behaving with them, he might not ever be respectable towards you as well. So thinking twice before making him an essential part of your life is not invalid.

2. Notice his honesty with you

Many people experience deception and untruthfulness in their relationships. It not only affects their partnership but gives the person terrible emotional trauma. This is why you should look for someone who means whatever they say and someone open about how they feel.

3. See how he manages his anger

Anger management is important as it not only assists in resolving problems early but is also considered beneficial for your physical health. Problems like anxiety and stress leave a negative impact on the relationship if he fails to keep calm in ugly arguments.

4. His support for your ambitions and goals

A relationship is not defined by the intimate stuff alone. Other things like choosing a partner who keeps on motivating you to achieve your goals and is willing to support you with whatever decision you make for your future are also essential.

5. His behaviour with domestic helpers

The way he treats helpers and waitresses says a lot about his empathetic character, which must be acknowledged and recognized. Compassion is one of the most important moral qualities, and you should try to find someone who can easily feel for other people.

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How To Heal Yourself After A Breakup

Often emotional pain is not given the same amount of attention and care as physical pain, making it much harder to heal. Breakups, especially after a long run, are one of the most intense emotional pains humans experience. Yet, there are little to no remedies for recovering from it. Here I will mention a few of the ways you can heal from a breakup.

Acknowledge the pain. When we break up, we face the harsh reality of being rejected. This rejection is a huge blow to our egos and often causes us to ignore the pain and act indifferent to it. But ignoring this pain will cause our emotions to gather up only to erupt like a volcano at any moment. Thus, the first step towards healing from a breakup is to accept that it has affected you in many ways.

Let it all out. Once you have accepted that you were hurt and rejected, the next step is to mourn the loss- quite literally. Cry your heart out, scream into the pillow (flush their pictures into the toilet, etc.), and do not, even for a moment, think that your friend is judging you for your runny nose.

Surround yourself with love. The next step is to surround yourself with love. Be with family, friends, and even pets who provide you with unconditional support and love, whose company empowers you and makes you feel strong. Taking a helping hand from loved ones during a breakup can feel like a fresh breath of air after a deep dive. In short, relying on love can make you get up on your feet again.

Find love within yourself. In relationships, we sometimes shower our partners with all of the love that we have. And forget to keep some for ourselves. While breaking up, it seems like our ex has taken all our love with them, and there is nothing left behind. The final and the hardest step in healing from a breakup is to start learning self-love again. You can do this by reviving your healthy habits, pampering yourself, eating healthy, exercising, and doing what you love.

Finally, be sure to be patient with yourself. You will not heal overnight, give yourself time and see yourself emerge as a stronger person from this healing process.

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Dating websites that have a track record of finding the perfect match

1. Eharmony

If you are looking for a serious relationshipeharmony is the way to go. It matches people based on their core values and compatibility scores with others. In the past 20+ years, eharmony has found love for over two million people. Some of their success stories are featured on their website. They have connected people living in different countries, people looking for a second chance at love, people who nearly gave up, and more! Some of them even have their own babies now!

2. EliteSingles

Most people (85%) on EliteSingles are educated and look for other intellectual and professional people. The dating pool of this dating website ranges from divorced people to single millionaires. It is the ideal choice for single people in their forties.

Success stories of EliteSingles feature three couples:

● Michelle and Lee. They formed a lifelong connection on EliteSingles and got married the next year!

● Alix and Rory. Two people living in different countries (England and Dublin) met in real life and are now in a serious relationship. They plan to live with each other in the future.

● Adam and Allison. They found each other within two days of joining the website and are now a happy couple.

3. Zoosk

Zoosk hosts over 40,000,000 singles worldwide and is available in 25 languages! It uses Behavioural Matchmaking technology to find the perfect set of matches for you.

Zoosk has a whole blog featuring the success stories of Zoosk couples! My favourite Zoosk couple is Kristy and Denise from Wisconsin. Kristy writes, “Denise smiled at me first, but I was already eyeing her! I tried to play it cool and waited a couple seconds, and smiled back. We started chatting on the site and almost immediately on the phone. We met at a restaurant halfway between our homes, and that was it!! We are a perfect match because we both enjoy life, have the same values and love our time having fun together!”

4. Christian Cafe

If you are a Christian looking for a long-term commitment, sign up on ChristianCafe! This dating website is owned by Christian people. So they understand exactly what other people want in their Christian partners. It is truly Christians connecting Christians from all over the world. You could be living in the same city or on the opposite sides of the world, Christian Cafe has a place for every Christian love connection.

Since 1999, Christian Cafe has commenced over 25000 marriages! Their website features over 3000 testimonials. My favourite one is from Lindsey and Greg. It reads, “I have always asked God that when I met the man I would marry, I would know it immediately, and there would be no games, no confusion, no nonsense. I prayed that and had complete faith that in God’s timing this would happen. I give all the praise and glory to God, and thanks to ChristianCafe.com for a great site with a comfortable atmosphere to it.”

5. JDate

Jewish people, who want to find a partner sharing the same faith as them, should check out JDate! It has been around since 1997 and has a free membership. The website features over 820 success stories!

JDate has the largest Jewish dating pool online. The website matches Jewish people based on:

● Physical features (you can upload up to six photos)

● Hobbies

● Religious practices

● Relationship preferences

It also features a Look Book to help you keep track of everyone who has liked your profile.

6.ChristianMingle

ChristianMingle is the largest God-centered dating community with local singles who share the same faith.
Find love on ChristianMingle!

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Inspiring conversation ideas for online dating

After finding the one you love on a dating app or website, how do you keep the conversation alive?

Start with things that matter the most to you. Talking about those first will deter disappoints down the line. Once you get the bigger pieces out of the way, you make room for light-hearted storytelling, questions that make your partner laugh and think about things on a deep level. Let’s look at some inspiring conversation ideas for online dating.

“What are your favourite foods?”

Now this one may sound like a generic one, but it’s more than just a deciding factor of what you’re going to eat at a restaurant. In the current age, even our food choices reflect our political stances. Are you a vegetarian and condone the slaughtering of animals for food? Or are you a meat eater who doesn’t care?

“What do you think about XYZ?”

People love to share their opinions with others as they are packed with their viewpoints and advice. It can be something as casual as the ending of a suspense thriller or something as serious and sensitive as the concept of god.

“Tell me more about [insert something they like or love].”

You don’t want the conversation to stop at whatever food, movie or any activity they love. The keyword here is “more,” keep the conversation going. Let your partner explain all aspects of their interests and experiences.

“Hey, this XYZ thing reminded me of you.”

If something reminds you of your lover, tell them. It could be a song, a movie, a picture, a meme, a flower, the sky, the moon — anything. It shows that you’re still interested in the person and you think about them. Picking out something from the ordinary and sharing it with the one you love is a beautiful experience.

You can also pick something you know they love and say, “yeah, I thought this [insert the thing] might interest you.”

“Which TV shows do you binge-watch?”

It’s just another way of knowing what interests your new partner. Are they the kind of person who watches documentaries about space and underwater creatures? Or do they love drama and comedy?

“This one time, I went…”

It’s storytime! Tell them about your lived experiences, how you feel about them and what you learned along the way. Only go for the stories that might interest your partner. You don’t want to appear (or even be) obnoxious.

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How To Win Her Over On The First Date

First dates are always tricky – you don’t know what to say, you don’t know how much flirt is too much, you don’t know if you will end up friend-zoned. Truth be told, there is a lot of confusion, but first dates are just about striking a balance. So, if you want the right things to fall squarely into a delightful spot, we are sharing some tips to win her over on the first date!

1. Mini-Golf

What you plan for a date will surely create an impression of you. We would suggest a candle-lit dinner or a movie night, but those activities are cliché and meh. So, plan to play mini-golf because it’s interesting, fun, and gives ample time to talk to each other (activity-based dates make conversations easier).

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2. Carefree Attitude Goes A Long Way

The first date is all about having fun, and your date needs to feel comfortable talking. So, sit with your back straight and keep the shoulders back. It will create a relaxed yet confident aura, and it will help her feel equally or more comfortable. Also, maintain the same warm and fun vibe during conversations, or you strike a lighthearted banter.

3. Talk To Waiters

Yes, we know you are dating a gorgeous girl, and you should be talking to her, but being friendly and cool towards waiters will show that you get along with people well. It will also show her that you are savvy and can get along with her friends and family if she decides to introduce you to them.

4. Be A Ross (Or Don’t Be Joey)

If you are a F.R.I.E.N.D.S fan, you would know how Ross always sticks around and call the lady back after their first date. So, call her after a day or two and propose a second date. However, if the date didn’t go well, just say your regards nicely, give a side hug, and be cool.

Now, go and be a charmer!

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How To Find Love On Tinder?

Let’s be honest, Tinder is used to find one-night stands and flings, but some people actually want love. Sure, Tinder has a reputation for creating lustful relationships. Still, luckily enough, we have put together some great tips to help you find true love!

1. No Sex-Obsessed Matches

If you are talking to someone for the first time and they mention going to hotels and hooking up for sex, that’s your first hint of dropping them. So, thank them for their “time” and don’t respond (they will get the signal).

2. Put A Stop To Selfies

Two selfies are OK if you are up for fun and fling, but one is the ideal choice if you want a serious relationship. That’s because if you upload too many selfies, you’ll be deemed superficial, and that only attracts the hook-up matches. So, get some not-selfie pictures and create your well-rounded appearance!

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3. Hide That Cleavage

Of course, you have an amazing body, and you want to show it off! However, the cleavage pictures will only get you booty calls. So, even if you’re going to show off your sexuality and smoking hot body, do it subtly.

4. Slide Off Group Shots

Tinder is not the place to show off your friendships, and it can confuse people looking at your profile. So, if you have the group photos on Tinder, delete them and post the pictures that put the attention on you. Also, don’t post your photos from a wedding because it gives the wrong impression (of course, you want a marriage but don’t put it on the billboard, babe!).

5. Work On The Profile

If you want to score a good match and a serious relationship, show that. Finding a date on Tinder is all about building connections, but that’s impossible if you don’t write an engaging profile. So, be creative with the words and write a profile that hooks the other person!

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5 Couple Goals Of 2022

2021 was the year of baking banana bread, making dalgona coffee, and ordering tie-dye sweats while most couples struggled with relationship issues. Well, things are now getting back into the groove, and why don’t you reflect on your relationship as well? With this post, we are sharing five couple goals for this year that promise an intimate, happy, and romantic relationship!

1. Time Alone vs. Time Together

Everyone had fights during the lockdown because of the constant availability of each other and lack of personal space (don’t you think the same?). If you want the relationship to really prosper, it’s essential to enjoy the time alone for rejuvenation – believe us, some me-time is everything you need to recharge. Celebrate your individuality, and take some space to breathe!

2. Be A Cheerleader

If you are in a relationship involving jealousy, are you in the right relationship at all? So the second couple goal is to slide away from the jealousy, become their cheerleader, and support their goals. Rooting for each other is healthy and create a happy vibe.

3. Acknowledge Your Partner’s Love Language

The five common love languages include gifts, physical touch, acts of service, affirmation, and quality time. Every individual is different, and so is their love language, and acknowledging someone’s love language should be part of the couple goal list. To illustrate, if you like getting gifts, but your partner is more into acts of service, understand that it’s their unique way of showing love, and appreciate it!

4. Be Experimental

With each passing day, more and more couple activities are being launched, and 2021 seems to be the right year for exploring them. Also, it doesn’t have to be fancy because you can simply opt for couple yoga, couple massage, or salsa classes. After all, it’s all about spending quality time together!

5. Don’t Kill The Spark

Physical intimacy is essential for a relationship, and you must not let that spark go away. In addition to going under the sheets, cuddling is another way of maintaining physical intimacy (it’s actually great for killing stress, so why not?).

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